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Chemotherapy lies ahead, so she offers her hair to help others Published: Monday, March 14, 2011 at 11:42 p.m. last Modified: Monday, March 14, 2011 at 11:42 p.m.
VENICE – when her father chopped off her long blond ponytail, and stylist James Griffith started snipping away at the rest of her hair, Sydney Thinnes began to weep.
This was no ordinary haircut for Sydney, who has been battling a rare blood disorder for the past two years.
The Venice High cheerleader will undergo a bone-marrow transplant next week that, if successful, will enable her to live a normal life but will also result in three months in the hospital, the loss of her hair and cost her most of her senior year in high school.
But rather than sit back and watch her hair come out in clumps from the chemotherapy she begins this week, Sydney decided to have her shoulder-length blond hair cut off and donated to a nonprofit group that makes hairpieces for other ill people.
“I still want a little bit of hair,” Sydney, 16, told Griffith, as a half dozen family and friends watched at the salon Monday, including a cousin who decided to cut off her long hair in solidarity. “I won’t lose it all for two weeks.”
Donating her hair is one of many difficult decisions Sydney has made since she was given a diagnosis of aplastic anemia, a blood disorder in which the body’s bone marrow does not make enough new blood cells.
She endured blood transfusions and another treatment that seemed to be working, but in September she became gravely ill again. a donor match was found in January and she begins chemotherapy Wednesday to prepare her for the five-hour surgery next week.
The chemotherapy that will prevent her body from rejecting the marrow transplant will also make it unlikely she will be able to conceive children someday.
Faced with that prospect, Sydney opted to have eggs harvested from her ovaries so that she may later become a mother. her parents took out a $10,000 loan to pay for the procedure, which is not covered by insurance.
“Maybe she won’t need them,” her mother said about the eggs. she made the decision “to donate them to someone else who needs them. They’ll be a great cheerleader.”
A procedure that was unheard of a few years ago, it is part of a new program at All Children’s Hospital in St. Petersburg to counsel children and their families about the issues facing survivors of pediatric cancers, said spokeswoman Ann Miller.
Making life decisions at an age when most girls are worrying about getting ready for prom has made Sydney mature beyond her years.
Before going to the hospital, Sydney planned to coach one last practice with the young cheerleaders at the Venice Vikings football field at Wellfield Park, where her mother coaches cheerleading beside her and her father coaches football. in between treatments, the family is on the sidelines for games and practices.
“There is none of that crawl in a hole and feel sorry for yourself,” said Gretchen Wilson, a family friend whose sons play for Jay Thinnes.
The football community has rallied around the family with blood marrow drives to find a match and to collect blood for others.
They are planning a golf outing and concert in may to benefit the family.
But on Monday, it was time to celebrate a new look.
As Griffith fluffed Sydney’s hair, her smile slowly returned. “Oh my God,” she said. “It’s so weird.”